Alt.Fiction day Saturday 26th April Derby

Cross posted from

 ‘ LJ (who is the Venue Manager of Derby Assembly rooms) for all you Sci-fi lovers on my friends list

Alt Fiction Day

Saturday 26th April 2008
12.00 noon.
The Assembly Rooms – Darwin Suite.
£20.00, concessions £16.00.

Alt.Fiction returns in 2008 with another superb line-up of talent from the worlds of science-fiction, fantasy and horror writing.

30 authors, publishers and agents will be coming together for a great range of workshops, readings and panels including Brian Lumley, Michael Marshall Smith, Charlie Stross, Mike Carey. Graham Joyce and many more.

Alt.Fiction presents a fantastic day for readers and writers alike, with access to all sessions for one price.

Mr Cando

At the start of the year I envisioned 2008 as being not so much a year of me being beset by external events (births, deaths, job change, move house etc) but more a return to calm and harmony where the biggest thing that changes is me.
Oh and I’ve had that in spades the recent couple of weeks as I hurtled through feb! On one hand my new found confidence has been bringing me into new situations and in contact with big exciting things, while an sense of embarrassment and ‘can’t do’ was putting the breaks on and leaving me in a quite grumpy state of mind. While Rach and Eve were away at Hema’s down south for the good part of this week, I got my head sorted and refocused. Out with Mr Grumpy and in with Mr Cando!!

So were does this leave me after the long dark tea time of the soul that was February?

Teetotal – for at least two months, perhaps longer if it really agrees with me. Which at 36 going on 37 and never having a big tolerance for alcohol (3 pints and I’m pissed) even in my roaring 20s could be the case.

RPG Writing – With at least on RPG book to my name being released this year, even if I sit on my hands with everything else I’m doing at present. To quote Loz Continuum’s chairman;

Liber Newtus – the con fundraiser for this year is the ‘Liber Newtus’. Newt Newport, a great friend of the con and known to many of you, has given us permission to collect together and publish all his MOLAD scenarios for HeroQuest in a single, bumper volume. All the proceeds of the sale of this book go to Continuum, and we’d like to say a big Thank You to Newt for his generosity. “

Although some of this is previous glory, stuff that was published via the old Masters of Luck and Death website, theres’ going to be some new material that’s not been published before. Suffice to say all this has spurred me on to get Monkey and Simple Quest done so I can have a trio of books available at Continuum. All deeply exciting stuff.

Go Play Manchester
– Just about to have our fourth meet up, and we are getting quite a healthy turn out with numbers up to three tables. Word is getting out to local Manchester rpgers and I’m achieving the target of people getting together once a month and people without a game getting back in touch with established groups. Now thinking of going as a gang to Game08, Manchester 1-2nd November, to have fun and further promote the group.

Home – Operation Tidy up is well underway. Downstairs is clutter free except for the dining room. Upstairs begining to win in the Middle Bedroom, aka the Lair of Newt, the prize being bookshelves for my books (after 8 years of being in boxes!) and a new shiny PC. Also a much happier family as Eve crawls round.

Work – After a massive paranoia attack that I was falling back into bad habits, i.e. drifting along aimlessly and getting sidelined as the real work was elsewhere, this week more or less finished off the big WordPress MU install as a proof of concept, that we can use WP Mu for our research groups/projects who want their own sites and let them get on with it.

Has the pleasant side effect that I’ve learnt enough to set it up for my own and possibly others use. Already have the domain name and software set up at ukrpgblogs.net and the plan is to quietly develop it this month, move over goplaymanchester.org, my D101 Livejournal and either set up a general ‘Newt Games’ blog or a Blog about my HeroQuest shenanigans. Then we’ll see if its robust enough to offer to others as a service.

So that’s it for me. Remember Mr Cando, not Mr Cant!

Arrrrghhh Evie’s moving at the speed of lighting!!!

Evie teethed a couple of weeks ago. It wasn’t too traumatic and I certainly didn’t lose any sleep like some fellow members of the Dad Brigade have.  However I have never seen soooo much snot come out a small child ever!! Rach reckoned see saw on booger the size of her head! Her sleep was disturbed and she went off her food. Then she came out of and for a couple of days and everything was back to normal.

Then it was like a switch had be flicked! Suddenly my little girl has at least twice the energy, see’s strong, crawling 100% properly and pulling her self up on tables and chairs. Blink and she’s across the room by the time you’ve opened your eyes.

So Rach, who’s been taking the brunt of this one girl whirlwind, sorted out stair gates for the stairs and kitchen doors. We fitted them tonight, with the aim of turning the hall into one big playpen/crawl space.  The cats are a bit narked with their free flow restricted, but once Evie’s gone to bed we can open the gates and caty harmony is restored again.

One thing’s for sure, things will never be the same again.

Best night out evar!!

Tonight left Evie with Elaine and went out for a delayed Valentine’s meal with Rach.

Food was lovely, beer fantastic after 2 weeks of none, lots of grown up talk that didn’t revolve around either work or Eve (although due to slooooooow service lots of that too) and best of all….

…when we got in Rach read me ‘The Cat in the Hat’

Get in!!!

My Universe is slowing down…..

Centre Parcs was just what the Doctor ordered. Seven days of pure relaxation. Bike rides, the Aqua Sana (which includes Turkish steam baths, Japanese steam room, a Zen garden, Roman tepid room), Italian resturant, the French cafe, feeding the ducks….  Eve and Elaine enjoyed themselves and there wasn’t a cross word the whole holiday.

Since then I’ve been trying to keep the relaxed attitude that developed while I was away.  After a good seven years of dragging myself out the of the post student days of my late twenties, that has seen my parents split up, two house moves, three funerals, three job moves, both me and Rach retrain, one marriage (ours) and one birth (Eve), I think its time for life to slow down abit. 

While I do concede things will happen to rock the boat whether I like them or not, there’s allot I can do to make my ride smoother – by having a rock solid calm state of mind and by making considered moves.

So far this is paying off. Work is delightful as a result. I’m getting more done in a week than I used to in three months. Its also taking me in new directions that challenge and engage me.

Home is one of those bumper areas. Eve has been teething recently and Rach has found it a bit of a bump coming back home and being Eve’s sole carer during the day, after Centre Parcs where me and Elaine shared the load. While I can’t take the load off Rach, I’ve been making things easier for everyone by being a source of calm help when I get in on the evening.  Having children really brings home  why all the major religons bang on about  serving  others being the first concern and the way to happiness.

So in short I think I’ve reached a personal level that I’ve been struggling for years to achieve. 

Whoa, bit of a introspective post there!

Shattered

Really looking forward to our family holiday at CentreParcs next week. Still suffering from the cold that I had over XMAS, now at the tail end where it won’t let go with out a day or two of complete relaxation. That sounds like CentreParcs in a comfort plus chalet to me!!!

Although I’m physically drained I very happy and content. The new job at Faculty is GREEEEEEEEEEATT, exactly what I need at this point, with people I like, good challenging work, calm atmosphere. Gaming writing is moving on, even though writing has slowed to a trickle, and actually got all the internal art for SimpleQuest. I’ve even got my freelance web dev up and going 🙂 Go quite a fierce TODO list before I go on me jollies this Friday, but I’m sure I get there.

Ready, steady 2008!!

Packed up XMAS and put it back in the attic and put the lounge and dining rooms back to normal, much to delight of our cat Holly who has her coffee table back where it should be!

So tomorrow 2008 starts in earnst. Back to work in my new department, which I’m looking forward to.  Nine working days of that and then we’re off to Centre Parcs Sherwood Forest, with Elaine Rachel’s mother. Really looking forward to this, a break from the mess of the house, computers and domestic distractions.

Other things I’m looking forward to this year;

Continuum 2008 (Aug 2nd-5th) Leicester Uni

Furnace 2008 (Oct 18th-19th) Sheffield Garrison Hotel

Finally getting SimpleQuest and Monkey out, and D101Games up and going as an ongoing concern.

Other than that I really don’t know.

2007 was quite a rough year in many respects, but I came out way ahead of the game at the end of day. I’ve grown considerably in confidence and capablity. In fact 2007 was the year I found my confidence, and it was given a good run for its money!!!  What I could get up to this year with this new found superpower leaves me quite overwhelmed.

So buck up buddy, light speed ahead!!

So that was Christmas….

Egads it was an intense one. Eve’s first XMAS, so no way we’re going to do the usual XMAS trail round relatives houses.

So we hosted a big old family xmas at our house, with all the trimmings. Only problem was all the preparation was a bit errr well last miniute. Oh yes and I came down with the cold from hell, which I’ve only just surfaced from (hence the late LJ post).

It was a goodie though, best XMAS in years.

Favourite bits,

Eve ripping into her presents and the look of exicitement on her face (in fact with all the relatives and things going on Eve was the most excited I have ever seen her)

Getting a Dalek bubblebath.

Drinking all day XMAS.

Seeing my Dad, who lives up in Northumberland, and having him stay for a couple of days.

Escaping next door, and being used by them as an excuse to escape their guests.

XMAS pudding and cake made by Rachel, yum.

Boxing day drinks and lunch with George and my dad.

Everyone going home day after boxing day.